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About

Jocelyn Eikenburg

[Jocelyn Eikenburg is] a smart and funny and a beautiful writer, and if you don’t know about her and her blog Speaking of China, then you are missing out.”

- Tracy Slater, founder of the acclaimed literary series Four Stories

Jocelyn Eikenburg is one of the most prominent voices on the web for Chinese men and Western women in love. Married to John/Jun, a Chinese national from Hangzhou, Jocelyn has grown a following through her offbeat stories and advice about love, family and relationships in China.

Her essay “Red Couplets” was published in March 2013 in the anthology Unsavory Elements alongside some of the biggest names in the China expat literary world including Peter Hessler, Simon Winchester, Michael Meyer, Deborah Fallows, Alan Paul, Susan Conley and Jonathan Watts.

She appears regularly in the media including the BBCChina Daily, China Radio International and Global TimesHer writing credits include Matador, Asian Jewish Life, and Global Times.

She found her passion for writing — as well as her true love — while living and working for five and a half years in China, including Zhengzhou, Hangzhou and Shanghai. A Cleveland, Ohio native living in China, Jocelyn is fluent in Mandarin Chinese and is currently at work on a memoir. She hopes to one day finally master the most uptempo Jay Chou songs without missing a beat.

Follow Jocelyn and Speaking of China on Facebook, Twitter, Sina Weibo/新浪微博, Google+ and LinkedIn. You can also receive blog posts by e-mail or by RSS feed. Check out her Pinterest boards featuring couples of Chinese men and Western women, Chinese wedding photos and more.

Have a question, comment or suggestion? Contact Jocelyn at jocelyn(at)speakingofchina(dot)com or through this form.

Yuan Fu photoYuan Fu is the official English-to-Chinese translator for Speaking of China. A native of Ji’nan, China who studied abroad at Cardiff University, he has always loved languages — and this lifelong passion ultimately moved him to offer his talents to this site. When he’s not racking his brains translating posts, Yuan serves as an audit trainee for an accounting firm in Ji’nan. Someday, he hopes to work for a non-profit organization, have a workshop for creating translations and handcrafted military/building models, and also marry the Western woman of his dreams (ladies, he’s single!).

For any comments or suggestions regarding translations, you’re welcome to contact Yuan at speakingofchina(at)hotmail(dot)com.

84 Responses

  1. Orion Byrd
    Orion Byrd May 27, 2009 at 12:48 pm | | Reply

    Thank you for sharing your gift with the rest of us. Your writing, as well as your experience, is inspiring. I am fascinated with Chinese language and culture, but have no means to experience it firsthand. Your descriptions of Chinese life help me to envision what it will be like when I am able to visit someday.

  2. Mei Selvage
    Mei Selvage May 27, 2009 at 11:08 pm | | Reply

    Jocelyn, I enjoyed your writing very much! I just returned back to Pocky two weeks ago. Missed seeing you around in Zen center.
    Have a safe and great journal! Keep writing about China!
    Mei

  3. Elan
    Elan May 29, 2009 at 3:30 pm | | Reply

    Wish you all the best(2 of u)!:)

  4. Amber
    Amber June 4, 2009 at 10:12 pm | | Reply

    When my husband and I were first thinking of moving to China back in 2003, your blog helped me to decide to go. You so obviously loved China that I knew it would be a good decision, and it was. We lived there for four years before going to Korea (major mistake) and then back to the US last summer. We couldn’t deal with the US anymore, either, and so went on to Mexico.

    I’ve missed China ever since I left, some days crying from missing it so badly, sometimes even dreaming of it.

    I’ve thought about your web site often and wished you had it going again – and viola! I love Mexico more all the time, but often my students ask if I will ever return to China, and I have to say, “Maybe…maybe…”

  5. K Cheung
    K Cheung June 24, 2009 at 12:54 am | | Reply

    I was led to your blog as I was reading China Law Blog. Great blog. Love it.

    ~ a reader from HK

  6. Joel
    Joel September 16, 2009 at 8:29 pm | | Reply

    Can it be? Someone else with an obsession for Chinese people and culture? Glad to find your blog, and thanks for the linkage in your latest post. It’s nice to find China reads and discussions that aren’t preoccupied with politics or business.

  7. xk
    xk October 4, 2009 at 6:08 am | | Reply

    It is great to see your article here. Wishing u enjoy your life in China

  8. Kai
    Kai October 19, 2009 at 1:23 pm | | Reply

    I chanced upon your website and really love it!! I am really touched by your profound affection for China and the Chinese people. I also studied in the US and am now living in Hong Kong. Keep up the love and I wish you all the best!

  9. YA Li
    YA Li October 19, 2009 at 10:26 pm | | Reply

    Beautiful storey. Beautiful life. Thanks for sharing. You and your family are wished happiness. There are so many people rooting for you.

  10. Leo
    Leo October 24, 2009 at 12:17 pm | | Reply

    哇塞!写好多啊!嘿嘿!真棒!祝你幸福in China~!best wishes n good luck~!

  11. Ted Waite
    Ted Waite November 10, 2009 at 8:36 pm | | Reply

    I TO LOVE CHINA!!!! MORE FOR THE WONDERFUL PEOPLE I HAVE GROWN TO LOVE THERE.
    Tears came to my eyes as I read your account as it is similar to mine in some ways. I am an American through and through….but I have fallen in love with China this mysterious and wonderous country. I have traveled there 2 times in the last 2 years.
    A friend at work gave me the articles in the Idaho State Journal, I read them again and again, because I long for China.
    Keep up the writing.

  12. æ—­æ–‡
    æ—­æ–‡ December 26, 2009 at 6:22 am | | Reply

    for a certain reason, i happen to read your “about”.
    as a Chinese college student, i’m glad that you love my motherland. nothing can be better if your account is read by a sea of Chinese who live in China, especially by those students who don’t love their hometown and are eager to go abroad. thank you for your writing very much!

  13. Celeste
    Celeste December 27, 2009 at 12:41 am | | Reply

    Great site!! I too am an American woman with plans to marry my Chinese boyfriend. While we are currently living in America, I felt as though I could relate to some of your cultural experiences of loving someone of Chinese descent. It makes me feel less alone! Keep up your great work!

  14. Aiden
    Aiden January 1, 2010 at 1:10 am | | Reply

    I am a Chinese guy who is going to graduate next June. I am majoring in English simply because I want to know more about this world. You mentioned a lot about the cross-culture relationship which is something I desired for years. I always wanna a life different from the ones that most people have in China. I know it is gonna be tough, but I have faith. No difficulty no fun. Life itself is that way. Anyway, it is rather hard for a Chinese mainlander to seek the chance of meeting any International women especially those who want to marry chinese guys. If you have any good channels or tips, why not tell us?

  15. Aiden
    Aiden January 1, 2010 at 7:56 pm | | Reply

    Sounds great! It is so much nice of you to do this! I already bookmarked this blog. You are really a good Xifu of China. Hahaha….

  16. Scott
    Scott January 6, 2010 at 4:53 pm | | Reply

    Hi Jocelyn

    Your blog is very well done and your stories are very well written. I came across it from another Chinese friend who linked your blog to her facebook page. I didn’t think much of it at first glance but for some reason decided to click on the link to see what it was able. To my surprise it was your blog speaking about your experience in China and its people. What really caught my attention was the Caucasian perspective of China and its people. I am chinese with a Caucasian girlfriend as well, but I am not a Chinese national. I am actually a US citizen and basically grew up in the States. But I’ve always found it pretty cool when I see other couples that are cross-culture relation.

    Anyways, wanted to thank you for sharing.
    Best

  17. Chowan (Konpo's wife)
    Chowan (Konpo's wife) February 4, 2010 at 11:47 pm | | Reply

    Hi Jocelyn,

    Your postings are sweet. Am really enjoying them.

    Best wishes,

    Terry Chowan

  18. winser
    winser February 20, 2010 at 1:59 am | | Reply

    Hi Jocelyn

    just followed you from twitter, @winserzhao is mine account.
    Glad to meet another expert who always speaking China. great staff. Hope I can interview you and post to China Travel 2.0 website.
    Winser

  19. Crystal
    Crystal March 28, 2010 at 10:24 am | | Reply

    Jocelyn, thanks for adding me on your blogroll.
    Congratulations on reaching the mark of 100 posts! :-)

  20. Vladimir
    Vladimir March 31, 2010 at 12:32 pm | | Reply

    Dear Jocelyn,
    I think you’re doing a great job with this blog. Just keep on doing it. You should really have all these experiences published as a book.

    Greetings from Shanghai from Vladimir:)

  21. Jo
    Jo April 13, 2010 at 9:49 pm | | Reply

    I just found your website… and I think it is pretty good… and I will add your site to my page.. so my readers can visit. I am also married to a Chinese national.. however.. I am still living in China. I am in Yuyao City.. if your were in Hangzhou .. then you know where I am .. not far from there. I hope you dont mind but i am going to steal your idea of the questions and answers… (smile).. it is a great one.. I hope we can be in touch and become great online friends.. and hopefully one day meet when you are back in China. I wish you the best with your website…

  22. British HK Girl
    British HK Girl April 14, 2010 at 3:38 am | | Reply

    I have a friend who’s study Chinese at University in the UK, she’s had a year experience in Beijing and back in the UK teaching now (she has her PGCE). I am wondering what is your view on a female white teacher in China, how’s easy/difficult life is and anything to be aware of?

    Thanks for sharing your story, it is very moving, I am also in a cross-cultural relationship, and intend to look more into this area and do a PhD on it. Is there any reason why your husband did not study in China for his PhD?

    Any reply/email will be greatly appreciated!

    keep up the good blog!
    British HK Girl

  23. Brittany
    Brittany June 11, 2010 at 11:57 pm | | Reply

    Hi Jocelyn. I felt obliged to drop you a line and just let you know how much I am enjoying your blog, which I happened to stumble upon one day. (I actually keep getting updates and coming to read it around 5:30 p.m., which is supposed to be the time I get off work, and I always end up staying 10 or 20 minutes late to finish reading your posts and all the comments!)

    Although I do not have a Chinese partner (my boyfriend is a blue-eyed, blonde-haired American, though I might call him a wannabe-Chinese based on his fascination with everything China!), I still find your posts incredibly relevant for dealing with many of the perplexing scenarios Chinese culture can confront us with. And as an editor, I can attest that your writing style is very good, which always makes reading a blog much easier for me! :) When you come back to China, I’d love to get in touch as fellow media professionals (if I am still here). Anyway, best of luck to you and your husband. I look forward to following your chronicles.

  24. Laura
    Laura July 21, 2010 at 4:27 pm | | Reply

    Hi Jocelyn,

    I just found your blog yesterday and I’m so happy I did. About 13 months ago, I met my wonderful husband. We got married 7 months ago, and are looking forward to my first trip to China this December. My in-laws are having a Chinese wedding for us within days of our 1-year anniversary. We are also visiting Shangai and Beijing. We are so excited!

    It seems that you and I have a lot in common- in the few posts I have read I noted that you are vegan – I was vegan and tend toward that diet most days but am now vegetarian. We also seem to be about the same age and both come from Cleveland, OH.

    I have been using the Pimsleur Mandarin Chinese CD’s which have been extremely helpful-it sounds like you learned Chinese on the ground through immersion, but are there any materials that have been extremely helpful to you?

    I am really enjoying reading your blog to learn more about China and what to expect when I visit in December. THANK YOU so much for pouring your heart out in your blog. I am enjoying every word.

    -Laura

  25. timedied
    timedied July 28, 2010 at 6:57 am | | Reply

    I like this blog! amazed to know that you know so much about China!
    I am a Chinese who is learning English now,i hope more people can learn about China from your articles.

  26. Emily Wood
    Emily Wood September 19, 2010 at 7:39 pm | | Reply

    Hey Jocelyn! I am researching different programs to teach abroad in China and the Appalachians Abroad Teach in China program sent me to your site. I did not know the best way to contact you but I would love some advice on being a young traveler in China. I am graduating with my Bachelor’s degree in May and am contemplating going to Beijing for a year. Any advice, tips, worries you could share with me would be reallly appreciated!

  27. lee Li
    lee Li September 25, 2010 at 10:12 pm | | Reply

    I am a Chinese guy and I came across your blog by search engine and found your blog very helpful on explaining the love relationship between western women and chinese men. I started reading your blog and those questions to you yesterday, and hopefully i will add some of my comments on it shortly. and apart from the love relationship, i think you have provided some very first hand experience on many aspects about China.

  28. Albert
    Albert October 12, 2010 at 11:56 pm | | Reply

    Hi Jocelyn,
    You make an excellent cross culture ambassador for America and China. I am a Chinese guy with a white partner for 30 years, and we have two beutiful daughters together. I thoroughly enjoyed your blog. Thanks and keep up with your good work.
    Regards,
    Albert.

  29. Andi
    Andi November 29, 2010 at 3:33 pm | | Reply

    I’m so happy that I came across your site! I’m an Acupuncturist who is quite obsessed with China myself (and Pearl Buck). I can’t wait to read your posts!!! Hen gaoxing jian dao ni. :)

  30. Leo
    Leo December 1, 2010 at 6:34 pm | | Reply

    Interesting blog. I am Chinese grew up in Boston, born in China. I didn’t know that much about China until I found this blog:) My dating life has become a bit dry lately, and definitely would read some of the posting here to see how I can get back on track! I dated mostly Asian women as it is hard to date non Asian but have gone out with a few who cares more about my personality!

  31. Matthew
    Matthew December 9, 2010 at 6:31 pm | | Reply

    Greetings from Hangzhou:

    Thanks to your site, I easily found the character for gui in, “Zao sheng gui zi!” Isn’t it nice being one of the first results on google for that phrase? A student of my wife’s (Dental Hygiene) is getting married today and I needed to add that in our card for her.

    We live in Hangzhou and I, like you, much prefer the small towns and villages hidden away in the hills and valleys (though if we have to be in a city, then Hangzhou is a blessing). I very much hope you get a chance to come back soon.

  32. BEN
    BEN December 31, 2010 at 3:06 am | | Reply

    Hi! Jocelyn
    I am very glad that I can visit your website , It is wonderful place , bridage the gap between the westerners and chinese people , this is the platform which enhances the comprehension of chinese culture , I am a chineseman , I like western culture too,
    I am 40 , single , actually divorced , I like to find a yaxifu , Could you help me find one , I am vey appreciated your help !
    my Email : [email protected]
    your sincerely Ben

  33. Alex@Senna Leaves
    Alex@Senna Leaves January 29, 2011 at 8:13 pm | | Reply

    Good luck on going back to China! I never went there myself but I hope to go eventually… China & Japan hopefully!

  34. martina kaderova
    martina kaderova February 4, 2011 at 10:13 am | | Reply

    Hello,

    I cant find you email so I´m sorry to write you here. My name is Martina Kaderova and would like to ask you about possible cooperation with finding wedding tailor in Suzhou. My salon is located in the Czech Republic. I am looking for the
    tailors and wedding factories in China.

    Sincerely,

    Martina Kaderova

  35. Cheri Spain
    Cheri Spain March 15, 2011 at 3:52 pm | | Reply

    I am so very happy to have found your blog. I only wish I had found it years ago. Oh if you only knew, I have been in love with a Chinese man since I was 10 years old. He was my mothers co-worker, and I grew up with the biggest crush on him. It wasn’t until I was of age that he came to California to see me one weekend and what a glorious weekend it was! And though I have dated a few Asian men it is he that I return to yearning for. We have reconnected from time to time in the past 20+ years. He always tells me that he doesn’t have time for a relationship right now because of work. I fear he just isn’t that into me but I still adore him and am grateful for the time I do get to spend with him.

    Your blog gives this old lady hope that one day I will find an Asian man to love and love me back. Thank you!!

  36. Charles Ho
    Charles Ho April 7, 2011 at 12:39 am | | Reply

    My name is Charles Ho ,chinese male ,single .27 years old.Now work in Dongguan,Guangdong province ,China,the city next to hongkong.
    I am excited to find out “speaking of China”,just wanna make sure if there is a spot for ladies only?cross-cultural love, dating, marriage and family.
    I believe there is a point where this 2 cultures can match, but for a life time, i express my doubts. After few years tensions will came and in the end ours life will be paintfull. I can only say, no one is perfect, but for me always a kind-hearted girl will be my match.
    But in my eyes, I don´t see their nationalities, I rather see their quality of a nice human being, I know many examples of intermarriage, some persist and some end up with divorce.
    It´s ok that you guys like Asians or whatever, but please don´t make provocative and generalized statements.
    Get back to me any comments on cross-cultural love, dating, marriage .See you next time!
    Email:[email protected]
    Skype:charles19850319

  37. FrankZhao
    FrankZhao May 12, 2011 at 11:21 pm | | Reply

    Hello Jocelyn I am really admire your husband. He can
    meet and date marry with your such as pretty west girls
    I am living and working in Shanghai. But unlucky I don’t have chance to know and meet the west girls in Shanghai
    and don’t know how to know them. and where I can easy to say hello to them and be their friends. If any foreigner girls that working and living in Shanghai. Pls contact with me. I really want find a foreigner girls as
    girlfriends. I hope I can marry with a west girl like jocelyn
    Then have a nice family. My name is Frank. any my E-mail is [email protected]. and my skype is frankzhao555. my mobile is 13671918270. I am waiting for the good new. Thanks!

  38. David
    David May 16, 2011 at 9:40 pm | | Reply

    Hi ,
    I run a free learning website called bizpanda.org and I recently added your
    link to my blogroll. I’m a long-time admirer of your blog. I would love it if you
    added my link http://bizpanda.org/ to your blog. I feel it would benefit
    visitors to your blog studying Chinese or doing business with China.

    Yours Sincerely,
    David Glynn

  39. Kevin
    Kevin May 21, 2011 at 1:28 am | | Reply

    I think you have a great blog, providing advice, hope and genuine encouragement to others, from your own experience of life.

  40. Jeffrey TAN
    Jeffrey TAN May 31, 2011 at 7:27 pm | | Reply

    jocelyn,
    your articles are very true, whereby you only get to see and live it when you are in china. it is very helpful to many people actually. I appreciate it because my mexican wife would love to read it because I am a Malaysian Chinese, she has stories similar to yours. Especially the worries,concern and pressure of a mother in law…..

  41. guoqing yao
    guoqing yao July 1, 2011 at 3:00 am | | Reply

    give me your weico adress i’m yo that guy you know in the bus

  42. Aurora
    Aurora July 3, 2011 at 7:23 pm | | Reply

    I kind of wish I knew of this blog five years ago in 2006. I met a Chinese international student back then and being ignorant, well, in cultures, taboos, pretty much everything, chased him away to make long story short. :( Should I ever be with a Chinese guy again, thanks to your advice and articles, I think I at least will have an idea of how to behave and what to expect. (Hopefully won’t mess it up.) Also in the future if I end up with a Chinese I might ask some interesting questions hopefully.

  43. Victor
    Victor July 4, 2011 at 7:26 am | | Reply

    Hi jocelyn,

    Thank you for putting all the posts about AMWH. I am a Chinese Australian who came from Hong kong over eleven years ago. I have recently been dating an Aussie girl and to be honest, we both love what we read on your site. Keep up the good work! I hope soon I can contribute to your blog with my personal experience :)

  44. Peter Xie
    Peter Xie July 15, 2011 at 12:56 am | | Reply

    Hi Jocelyn,
    Just read your blog by chance.
    Chinese culture is very complicated as our country has so long history. But the country is losing its tradition and valuable things,especially after the so called New culture movement during the 1920s. However this is not a sole phenomenon in China but aslo in western countries.
    If you want to understand this country and culture I suggest you read some classical works of China. Such as “Si Shu Wu Jing”. All of the Classical works were written in ancient Chinese if would even be difficult for a Chinese to read, but as I know there has been translated version for them.
    I also want to recommend a very famous Chinese Master to you, Professor Nan Huai-Chin,he is the one who really knows Chinese culture and has learned through 儒,释,道。
    Here is a link of introduction of him.
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nan_Huai-Chin

    My email is: [email protected] Hope to hear from you.
    Regards,
    Peter Xie

  45. Peter Xie
    Peter Xie July 15, 2011 at 1:10 am | | Reply

    By the way, enjoy your life in China!

  46. Nathalie
    Nathalie July 25, 2011 at 8:02 am | | Reply

    Hi Jocelyn,

    I want to thank you for your wonderful blog and stories on your experiences with your husband, his family, and life in China. I started reading your website about 2 years ago, just before meeting my wonderful Chinese boyfriend.

    Your website inspired me to revamp my own and start a new blog on relationship experiences (not just with my boyfriend, but also his family) as well as cultural anecdotes and stories from my trip to China in hopes other interracial couples will be able to relate http://nextcreativity.com. I want to let you know I added you to my blogroll because your site truly deserves to be read.

    Thank you!

  47. mangola
    mangola July 27, 2011 at 3:54 pm | | Reply

    Hi Jocelyn. I’m wondering if there is a way that I can contact you privately. I have a lot of questions and things I would love to discuss with you and get your opinion about. I love reading your blog and find that a lot of it is hitting home for me. I never thought to consider that there were other western women in China having similar experiences as me!!

    Thanks and let me know how I can send you an email or something!!

  48. Jean
    Jean September 11, 2011 at 9:47 pm | | Reply

    My advice to you is to best move to California where in some of those communities, there is more interracial marriage between Asians and others. Or Hawai’i

    Or to Vancouver, British Columbia or Toronto. Both of these cities have alot of Canadians of Asian descent. (Toronto has over 300,000 of Chinese descent, and that’s not even counting those of Thai, Vietnamese, Japanese, etc. descent! There is over 2 million people across Greater Toronto.)

    The reason why I suggest that, is when you live for a long time in a city of high interracial dating and marriages, then the discussions and generalizations about Chinese men tend to exhibit certain behavoiurs or Chinese women or white men, etc. fall apart pretty quickly. It is much easier to lift the veil of interrcultural/inter-racial perceptions when there’s others with a range of different challenges that have to do more with personality, socio-economic family background, etc.

    By the way, my partner is of German descent and we’ve been together for last 19 years. We collaborate in different ways like blog posts: http://thirdwavecyclingblog.wordpress.com

    2 of my sisters also have married Caucasians and have 5 children between the 2 of them. A 3rd sister is married to a Chinese-Canadian (3 children).
    Jean recently posted..Saskatoon Berries— Wild Little Berry with Potential

  49. Bukki
    Bukki December 13, 2011 at 2:41 am | | Reply

    When I discovered your blog I couldn’t stop reading through all your articles.
    Both my parents are Chinese but I was born in Germany and grew up here. This was the reason for all sorts of frustration in my upbringing. I was stubborn, refused to learn Chinese but I complied to their expectations in terms of academic success and that seemed to have been enough for them. We rarely talk through the phone now after I’ve moved away and they seem to trust me in my choice of a German boyfriend (although he didn’t make a good impression when he accompanied me home..). After reading your posts I feel I can understand their strictness and lack of hugs and compliments a bit more.
    I actually complained once that all they tell me is what I should do better and never how I did something well. I guess that’s just the difference in culture but I find myself doing the same.

  50. aiyangxifu
    aiyangxifu January 30, 2012 at 10:26 pm | | Reply

    http://tieba.baidu.com/f?kw=%E6%B4%8B%E5%AA%B3%E5%A6%87&fr=tb0_search&ie=utf-8

    Here is forum about foreign wife married to Chinese at baidu.

  51. Rensi
    Rensi March 4, 2012 at 3:19 pm | | Reply

    Hi Jocelyn! I certainly hope that you can “master the most uptempo Jay Chou songs” as soon as possible, and as many as possible! :p

    I love translating Chinese pop songs: http://inmymelody.wordpress.com
    or http://blog.sina.com.cn/inmymelodychn
    I’ve translated 32 songs so far, including Jay’s 《水手怕水》and 《兰亭序》.

    Besides, I’d like to recommend my Sina Microblog account 哈哈中国HahaChina (http://weibo.com/hahachn) to you. I translate Chinese jokes and hilarious remarks every day.

    Best Wishes!

  52. Angelica
    Angelica April 21, 2012 at 5:27 am | | Reply

    Hi!

    I read your blog and I like it very much!, I’m from Mexico and I’ve been in China 2 times in the last year and a half, right now I’m staying in Dongguan for 5 weeks (I’m on the third).
    I love the culture and the people, and I’ve found that language is never a barrier, Chinese really try hard to make you feel welcome.

    Hope you keep writing!

  53. Yijie
    Yijie April 27, 2012 at 10:34 am | | Reply

    I accidentally googled something and your blog came up. I have never heard of you. Of course, I do not live in China. But your blog is inspiring. Great work!! I wish more people here where I live know there is diversity out there. Too bad, you often heard China is less diversity… but you gonna surprise how my people in my redneck town have no clue about this. Keep good work. I might need your advice soon.. I am dating a jewish girl too. Thanks again.

  54. ben
    ben July 29, 2012 at 7:35 am | | Reply

    祝生活幸福美满!

  55. Anne
    Anne January 24, 2013 at 10:53 pm | | Reply

    Just came across your work while at work, I am really looking forward to getting a chance to read this space! I’m from the UK and have been in China for about 5 months, so far I’ve had a brief dating experienced with a Chinese guy that was confusing to say the least. Being in China I would prefer to date Chinese guys, so I think this will be an interesting reference point!

    xoxo

  56. 王磊
    王磊 February 18, 2013 at 6:04 am | | Reply

    Hi!My name is wanglei,I am from China,My English is poor,But I want to make a friend with you.I Will be very happy if you send me a email.

  57. Gail
    Gail March 17, 2013 at 4:02 am | | Reply

    Hi! I enjoyed my blog hop over here! I will surely come back for more! :)

  58. yijie
    yijie March 17, 2013 at 5:28 pm | | Reply

    I wish I can meet someone like you. too bad, I am a metro Asian lives in a redneck neighbourhood here in Canada. :-(
    I have dated a few Jewish girls in my college. maybe i should use Jdate instead. lol.

  59. Vince Lin
    Vince Lin July 9, 2013 at 6:59 pm | | Reply

    Cute outfit – all white girls should have one for Halloween

  60. Darla Ng
    Darla Ng August 18, 2013 at 4:38 pm | | Reply

    Jocelyn,
    Thank you so much for your contribution to mixed marriage between the East and West. The reality is really about a relationship between a man and woman, just kick it up a notch. Learn some of his favorite recipes. For some reason Chinese men expect a woman to know how to cook. Also, respect him as a man, this is crucial to his identity as a Chinese male. I really admire you for learning to speak Chinese and am a little jealous. I’m almost deaf, so I can’t distinguish between the different tones in Chinese, plus my husband speaks four different dialects. Who knew? I really do appreciate you. Sincerely, Darla

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