My Chinese Husband, Almost Switched at Birth

When my Chinese husband was born, the neighbors wanted to swap him for their baby daughter. I couldn’t help but wonder what this said about women in China.

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Of Love, Money and An “Unsettled Relationship” With a Chinese Man

When I asked my Chinese husband about why he took out a loan to treat me on our first “official date,” the answer — which said a lot about how he viewed love and money — surprised me.

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How To Make It A Very Chinese Christmas

Tips on how to make this a very Chinese Christmas, from Chinese Christmas ornaments and decorations to a Chinese Christmas dinner.

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The Dengji Question: How Marriage in China Gets Confusing

The practice of dengji, registering a marriage in China, confused my relatives about our marriage, especially when we wanted to have a wedding ceremony later.

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