AMWF Family Needs Help: New Mother with Brain Cancer

One of the greatest joys of blogging has been the opportunity to meet incredible people in the AMWF community around the world and learn their stories. A little over two years ago, I met a wonderful guy named Logan Lo, happily married to a woman named Alison McCarthy. They’re such a lovely couple that if there were a magazine for the AMWF community, they’d look perfect on the cover.

Alison and Logan LoLogan Lo went on to write two of my favorite guest posts for Speaking of China – Why limit yourself? Logan Lo shares his interracial dating story and Did You Know Hollywood’s 1st Sex Symbol Was an Asian Man? I always hoped the best for Logan and his family.

In fact, 2015 was looking like a bright and beautiful year for this couple. On November 3, 2015, Alison gave birth to a healthy baby boy named Nathan. But five days later, tragedy struck Alison – she had a seizure, caused by a very serious brain tumor. Here’s the full story from the family’s YouCaring page:

On November 3rd, my sister Alison gave birth to her first child, a beautiful baby boy named Nathan. Five days later while recuperating at home, Alison suddenly had a seizure and was rushed to the hospital where a CT scan showed a large mass in her brain. Tragically, a biopsy has confirmed that Alison has a high grade glioblastoma brain tumor, a very aggressive form of brain cancer. Alison’s tumor is inoperable and average life expectancy is less than 18 months without treatment.

Because of this, the family is desperately raising funds to help save Alison and support the family during this difficult time. Here’s the explanation:

We are hoping to raise funds for Alison and her husband Logan as unfortunately their insurance is not accepted at leading cancer-centers like Memorial Sloan Kettering or for clinical trials with experimental treatments which are options we would like to have for her. Alison will also not be able to work for the foreseeable future and Logan cannot work full time as he is caring for Alison and their baby. The loss of income and added expenses will be financially devastating for this new family. Your donations will go to help pay for medical treatments, travel expenses, and childcare and are crucial in our fight to save Alison. The Brain Tumor Foundation estimates the cost of treating a brain tumor at more than $450,000 and says costs of treating a brain tumor can reach $700,000 in a lifetime.

This whole situation just breaks my heart. I know what it’s like when someone who means the world to you is fighting for their life – I’ve witnessed it with my own mother, and it is not a situation I would wish on anyone, especially a young couple with a new baby.

Logan Lo, Alison and new baby NathanIt’s been extremely hard on Logan, as you can imagine. Here’s what he first wrote about his wife’s situation:

I once said that all stories end sad; every relationship that matters will always end in tears. That’s the nature of the world. But I think the unexpected tragedies are the hardest. That’s when life knocks you to your knees and you can’t stand up again.

My wife is sick. And on top of the sickness, we have all the bonuses that come with the sickness – the fear, the uncertainty, the loss of control, etc.

Yet I hold out hope that somehow, this isn’t all of our story. That we can find a happy sequel to this news. And in the end, I want what everyone wants when they love someone – for them to stay.

Please stay with us. Please stay with me.

He also blogged about staying with his wife in the hospital, even though it meant sleeping on the floor beside her bed:

When my wife first got sick, I slept on the floor next to her hospital bed for a week. Said I did it because I didn’t want her to be alone, which was true. But equally true was that I didn’t want to be alone either.

Nurse: You can’t sleep here.
Me: (lying down) Let’s find out.

I’m sorry for the lack of updates – especially to those that have so generously donated.

On December 10th, Alison was unresponsive so we rushed her to the hospital. There, the doctors had to remove part of her skull to save her life. They said she might not survive the night. I fell to my knees.

But she survived. Then she had another surgery just a week later. That’s three brain surgeries in a month, just days after giving birth.

To say that my wife is crazy tough is like saying that New York City is a small town. She’s made of steel.

Unfortunately, she’s been in the hospital since the 10th and will be for quite a while. I’m there most days; other days, other relatives are with her.

This is not how we imagined our first Christmas and New Year’s as a family.

Still, I go to the hospital and have bread with her when she’s able. When she’s not, I just sit there. And we dream of home.

He also blogged about his first Christmas with Alison as a family, where Alison called him out of the blue, frightened because she had forgotten why she was in the hospital and what had happened to her:

Dunno how doctors regularly give bad news. Where do they find the strength to tell someone that that their lives are in grave jeopardy on the regular? Do they drink every night at their desk?

Me: …he said you might not wake up. But you did. Then he said you might be permanently damaged…
Her: (horrified)
Me: …but you’re not. And then another doctor said he had to open you again and said you might not come back, but you did. This cancer has been wanting to kill you but you just won’t let it.

Somewhere along the line, the alarms that were going off because of her rapid heartbeat, stopped ringing. And she started breathing normally again. Her voice became stronger.

Her: I can’t believe this is my life.
Me: (sighing) This woman once said, You don’t have a right to the cards you believe you should have been dealt. You have an obligation to play the hell out of the ones you’re holding. It’s a ___ hand, but you’ve been playing the hell out of them. We’re all so proud of you.

Then I took her phone and explained everything a third time – this time via a recording on her phone. And I titled it: WATCH ME!

Told her that if she woke up again and didn’t know where she was, she could watch that and wait for me. Because I would always be on my way.

I’m writing about Logan Lo and his wife Alison to ask for your support.

If you can support the family through donations (please donate through their YouCaring page), that’s wonderful.

But even if you cannot donate, you can also support them by simply sharing their story through social media. In doing so you’ll help them garner more support and ultimately more donations.

In the meantime, I’ll be keeping Logan Lo and Alison in my thoughts – and wishing them a Happy New Year that includes a full recovery for Alison.

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21 thoughts on “AMWF Family Needs Help: New Mother with Brain Cancer

  • December 31, 2015 at 4:02 pm

    That is heartbreaking 🙁 we will try to help as much as we can, also share it on my social media.

    Hope they can kick that cancer’s butt!
    Best wishes to all of them!

  • December 31, 2015 at 4:25 pm

    Just read this and felt my heart break! We will try helping out as much as we can. Let’s make sure she kicks cancer in the butt and has an amazing 2016! <3

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  • January 1, 2016 at 2:07 am

    A brand new mom with brain cancer? Just not right.

    Cried all the way through his story about his wife’s phone call from the hospital.

    What an amazing guy and what an amazing wife. I’ll do what I can. Thanks for sharing.

  • January 1, 2016 at 1:03 pm

    If I’m not mistaken, I believe I’m the one who showed my brother, Logan, your website. Thank you so much for your support and encouraging words!

    • January 2, 2016 at 12:52 pm

      Glennis, thanks for the comment and for introducing Logan to my site! It’s my pleasure to support Logan!

  • January 2, 2016 at 12:52 am

    Thank you very much Jocelyn for sharing this information to help Alison; you are truly a gem for the AMWF community.

    I was thinking, is it possible to send cards and/or photos to Logan in order for him to show Alison? Whenever I receive a card and/or photos, I always feel a sprinkle of happiness, it can truly lighten a person’s mood. 🙂

    • January 2, 2016 at 1:04 pm

      Thank you for the thoughtful comment, Maria.

      I’m not sure if it’s possible to send them cards/photos. Let me send your comment to Logan and see if he can answer your question.

  • January 2, 2016 at 1:08 am

    Please get the DVDs The Truth About Cancer. They’re just out, I just got them for Christmas. They’ve interviewed over 100 doctors, PhD’s etc. from all over the world. Many survivors tell their stories!!! They give info on the alternative doctors all over the United States, and in the world!!! Don’t accept a death sentence

  • January 2, 2016 at 3:15 am

    Happy New Year everyone. Cannot believe i just celebrated New Year just mere hours ago and the first thing i read is this.


    I believe Logan should SERIOUSLY take a look at SOURSOP fruit.
    This fruit is known by other names as graviola, guanabana. I live in the Caribbean and as a kid i used to eat this tangy tasty fruit. Do not confuse soursop with durian (spelling) that smelly fruit in some Asian countries. They kind of look similar in appearance but their taste cannot be more different.

    This is no joke.

    Please google soursop cancer, esp brain tumor. It’s been studied that soursop is 10,000 times pore powerful than chemotherapy.

    Alison & Logan if you are reading this , please do NOT ignore this. Research this on the net . There are true life experiences stories with cancer victims beating cancer. As a side note yes youcan beat cancer with other natural herbs spices or what have you but i’m going to lkiniot this to just soursop. If i come up with another devastating cancer killer (i cont think on top of my head right now)

    Please do not waste time with conventional medicine with their chemo crap which only makes you worse off. I’m no “snake oil salesman ” or whatever ridiculous term people like to throw at or trying to sell anything. Just want to offer my help. And i’m serious when i say to stay off chemo. Time is of the essence!

    Here’s is just a link i’d like to share:,70862,0.htm?mid=513583.
    Now this i just s tiny example. You will find more true life stories as you research more obviously.

    Joycelyn, PLEASE let Logan know of this. I cannot fathom Nathan without his mother and young married couple having to endure this.

  • January 5, 2016 at 3:06 am

    Please excuse some typos in my initial post…how embarrassing. Was writing on my tiny snail paced single core netbook.

    Anyway i wan to follow up. I am truly serious about what i posted but want to add additional info to arm yourselves besides this wonderful soursop fruit.

    Florida Woman Cures 4 lb. Brain Tumor with Raw Food

    The Testimony of a Guy Who Healed Himself of Cancer

    The Kelly Hauf Story: How she Beat Brain Cancer Naturally with Cannabis Oil

    A Ketogenic Diet May Be the Key to Cancer Recovery

    Brain-Cancer-Survivor: Coconut Oil

    Ketogenic Diet May Be Key to Cancer Recovery

    Woman Battles Brain Cancer Using Low-Carb Ketogenic Diet Without Chemo


    Cancer the Forbidden Cures – Full Documentary

    Please take the time to research this. Obviously i cannot speak for Logan and Alison. If it were up to me and of one my loved ones is having any form of cancer i will absolutely NOT get chemotherapy…PERIOD!!! Ditto for mammograms to you ladies.

  • January 6, 2016 at 11:45 am

    A Chinese international student here living in Toronto

    Hi Jocelyn, I have been reading your blog for a long time and never made a comment before.

    But this time I have to break my silence.

    REALLY, I don’t wanna see an AMWF couple breaks because of sickness.

    More importantly, a child cannot live without her mom, to me it is the cruelest thing happened in the world.

    Logon & Ali, fight!!

    Jocelyn, happy new year with your families and friends.

  • January 22, 2016 at 6:21 am

    Donation made, I wouldn’t have known about this if it werent for your blog!

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