Featured in China Daily Article: Western Women, Chinese Men

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  1. melanie gao
    melanie gao May 30, 2011 at 5:03 am | | Reply

    What wonderful company I find myself in! 🙂

  2. idiotfish
    idiotfish May 31, 2011 at 5:39 am | | Reply

    I really wonder what Dan at the China Law Blog would say. There’s been so much coverage in the Chinese news lately about shengnu women — which is really a cover for the 30 million bare branches — that I have to wonder how this relates to that. Is this really a Me Thinks Thou Doth Protest Too Much piece?

  3. Mary Katherine Smith
    Mary Katherine Smith May 31, 2011 at 6:49 am | | Reply

    Hi Idiotfish,
    Thanks for your comment and reading the story. To clarify, this wasn’t meant to be about “shengnu” or trying to say something isn’t true that is true… This was one of a package of stories many about cross-cultural marriages focusing on the more rare pairing of Chinese men with Western women. Not too sure how it falls in to the “shengnu” or “Me thinks Thou Doth Protest Too Much” category, so I’m curious as to where you got that from?

  4. Elise
    Elise June 5, 2011 at 7:18 pm | | Reply

    Hi Jocelyn, thanks for blogging about that article and congrats to have made news in the China Daily! I’ll make sure to share it with my hubby, who’s very proud of his foreign wifey and specially his mixed-race baby girl!

  5. FrankZhao
    FrankZhao June 8, 2011 at 8:13 pm | | Reply

    This is Chinese man was so luck. I am also very want find a foreigner white women for my wife. Why I always
    no any chance to meet them? I am living and working in Shanghai very nice and nice-looking Chinese gentleman. I am yearn for marry with the western white women age as 24-35 years old ok for me. Thanks! who can help me and who can introduce for me?

  6. emui
    emui June 19, 2011 at 11:11 am | | Reply


    Hey, dude, your tonality sounds desperate, western women don’t like that type of men. Unless some kind of asian fetish…get some charms and learn to be an alpha male first…good luck

  7. Shaunagh
    Shaunagh July 23, 2011 at 6:58 am | | Reply

    @FrankZhao …. I think you sound just fine. I don’t think you sound desperate at all. All I hear is that you are having problems meeting a western woman. I hope you meet someone. Maybe through your workplace? or interests outside of work? It is so hard to be an ‘alpha male’ on demand, and not necessarily attractive to western women either! Being introduced is the best way. The problem is that Chinese men are sometimes shy, and suitable western women might be on the shy side too… good luck! 🙂

  8. Shaunagh
    Shaunagh July 23, 2011 at 7:25 am | | Reply

    http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-an-alpha-male.htm, just in case there are readers who are confused about the term… like me! The description within this link, at least, only serves to turn me off ‘alpha-male’ qualities … ‘beta males’ better reflect all the Chinese men I am lucky enough to have met. Really, defining the ‘type’ of male one must be to attract women undermines all western women AND all Chinese/Asian men.

  9. Bruce
    Bruce July 23, 2011 at 3:15 pm | | Reply

    Alpha male theory huh? Just don’t be too soft 24/7. Be kind and respect
    people in general and people will hook you up w/women left and right.being too aggressive and w/ all alpha male characteristics can hurt your relationship too. Balance is the key. I’m soft but dont try to use or cheat me. Giant is sleeping lol

  10. Bruce
    Bruce July 23, 2011 at 5:47 pm | | Reply

    I never consider myself an Alpha Asian Male. I love to help people and people like to help me also. I like to learn from my mistakes. I like being humble and people normally don’t expect me to be a person like this. I love to socialize w/ good people. Once, people know you as a person, they will start thinking ” I want a bf/husband, son in law just like you”. You can reply”men like me are extinct like dinosaurs” . They will get the joke and laugh with you. After that, it’s smooth sailing for you.

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