An Interview with Susan Blumberg-Kason on “Good Chinese Wife” – Pub’d in Asian Jewish Life

My interview with Susan Blumberg-Kason on her new memoir Good Chinese Wife was just published in Asian Jewish Life!

Interview with Susan Blumberg-Kason on "Good Chinese Wife" - Asian Jewish Life

As longtime readers know, I originally interviewed Susan back in July about Good Chinese Wife as part of the Good Chinese Wife blog tour. For Asian Jewish Life, I expanded on that interview to ask more about how Susan’s Jewish identity factored into her story and also learn about the work in progress she’s currently writing (which has a very strong Asian Jewish theme!).

Here’s an excerpt from the interview:

AJL: Your Jewish identity is an important part of your story – such as trying to explain to Cai’s parents that you don’t want to eat pork, and having a bris for your son. What was it like navigating a world where people might not always understand what being Jewish really means?

SBK: I really tried to fit in and was worried at first that Cai’s family wouldn’t accept me because I wasn’t Chinese. So I was careful not to draw more attention to my differences. For that reason, I wasn’t so open about my Judaism. In the beginning of my marriage, I only mentioned it in passing. My parents attended a lecture in Chicago by the renowned scholar Xu Xin and brought a couple copies of his Jewish encyclopedia (printed in Chinese) for Cai and his parents. I’m not sure they ever read the encyclopedia and at the time I didn’t want to make a big deal about it, so didn’t discuss it with them. Later when Jake was born, I asked Cai about having a bris for Jake and he agreed. It wasn’t easy for him, and I write about that in Good Chinese Wife.When Jake was a year old, I suddenly felt like it was important for Jake to be raised with a religion. That’s not uncommon for people who aren’t very religious growing up but then change when they have children. So I signed us up for an interfaith group run by the Jewish community in San Francisco. Cai went with Jake and me a couple of times, but then claimed he had no interest and didn’t want to continue going. I took Jake by myself until we left San Francisco. I am happy to say that Cai attended Jake’s bar mitzvah three years ago and was very proud of Jake. This fall Jake is studying in Israel and Cai will visit him there!

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4 thoughts on “An Interview with Susan Blumberg-Kason on “Good Chinese Wife” – Pub’d in Asian Jewish Life

  • October 24, 2014 at 6:18 pm
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    Congrats! I enjoyed reading the interview.

    It is great to hear the Jake and Cai are still in contact with each other and see each other from time to time. I am sure Susan must be happy that Cai takes an interest in their son’s life.

    However, I do have a question: How does Cai feel about the book Susan has written about your relationship?

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    • October 24, 2014 at 7:39 pm
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      Great question about Cai and his feelings on the book. She did tell him about it, that’s for sure, but I’m not 100 percent clear about his exact feelings. They did interview him as part of this WSJ story on Susan’s book, but he was reluctant to discuss the book or their relationship.

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  • October 25, 2014 at 1:35 am
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    I just want to say that I own and read the “Good Chinese Wife.” It was a great book and I encourage everyone to read it.

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