Guest Post: First Comes Baby, Then His Lawyer | Speaking of China

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  1. Hypnocorg
    Hypnocorg December 8, 2016 at 6:41 am | | Reply

    I have no words other than… wow, what a piece of shit.

  2. miriam
    miriam December 8, 2016 at 10:39 am | | Reply

    This is such a sad story! I’m so sorry to hear it. You would imagine that Asian family values would prevail but your boyfriends behaviour is just awful. I hope you’ve recovered from your surgery and all of the lawsuits are over – how ridiculous that he assumed he could just take your son from you!

  3. Sha
    Sha December 8, 2016 at 11:08 pm | | Reply

    This is so sad. I’m at a loss for words. :<
    Mommy and the Little One will be in my prayers. :'( ♡

  4. Jen
    Jen December 9, 2016 at 12:39 am | | Reply

    This is so sad and infuriating to read! The father is so selfish and uncaring, treating your baby like his property. I don’t know what he’s told his lawyer but I feel any judge would see the situation clearly and rule in your favor. It’s so obvious what would be in the child’s best interest. What’s a guy who’s never lifted a finger to help take care of his baby going to do over there with an infant? It must be a pride thing, because he has clearly never cared about you or the baby until now.

    My heart goes out to you and your baby. Please do follow up!

  5. Timo
    Timo December 10, 2016 at 3:17 am | | Reply

    Stories such as this one are making me so angry. What on earth is wrong with that guy?
    I have few friends who suddenly had a baby on their hands, unplanned and in the middle of university or building a business where one of the partners was basically staying home and the other one creating said business. They managed everything together by putting the child as a priority but the father in this guest post…

  6. Holly Hollins
    Holly Hollins December 12, 2016 at 5:02 am | | Reply

    This story touched my heart and I hope that you are able to take custody of your child. It’s unfair, really. He had no part of your life when you were pregnant and just was so entirely selfish. You brought a baby in this world (on accident and hopefully first out of love)…but then he wants to take this away from you. Don’t stop fighting. I would try to find some proof that he wasn’t even there for the child after birth. (including he wasn’t working.)

    It’s stories like this or even similar stories that I’ve heard about that make me want to understand why men do this. Wish there was a backstory on how you met him and why you fell in love.

    Hope all is well.

  7. Yulleg
    Yulleg December 20, 2016 at 8:52 am | | Reply

    Need heavy punches for that Piece of Shit.

  8. George L. Walters
    George L. Walters December 24, 2016 at 3:00 am | | Reply

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