Guest Post: Crying Over Him After 5 & A Half Years
I cried for hours. Every time I thought about him, my eyes watered and I had to swallow the pain I felt deep in my chest. I know I can only blame myself.
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Advice to help you understand your Chinese boyfriend. Stories about finding and falling in love with a Chinese boyfriend. All from one Western woman with a Chinese husband.
Guest Post: First Comes Baby, Then His Lawyer
One of my favorite days of the year is the day I gave birth. Afterwards, little by little we descended into Dante’s nine circles of hell.
Read moreTo the Girl Whose Boyfriend’s ￥8,000/Mo Salary “Wasn’t Enough”
You told your friend about how dissatisfied you were with your boyfriend. You said his salary of “only” 8,000 RMB a month wasn’t good enough.
Read moreAn Open Letter to the Girl Whose Interracial Relationship Ended
I could feel your heartbreak in the messages you sent to me. I know what it’s like. I’ve had Asian boyfriends break up with me out of the blue.
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Guest Post: Nothing Can Prepare You for Living with Chinese Relatives
For those considering moving to the East to be with their loved one, you must be aware that the step you are trying to make is a huge one.
Read moreAsk the Yangxifu: Dealing with “When Will You Get Married?” & Other Awkward Chinese Family Questions
A Western woman living in Asia with her Chinese boyfriend wonders how to deal with awkward questions from his mom, like “When will you get married?”
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Guest Post: “He Feels Horrible About Me Being The Breadwinner”
“I hope my Chinese boyfriend will someday…find a way to accept that his girlfriend’s income will probably always be more stable than his.”
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6 Ways to Prepare for Meeting the Parents in China
Meeting the parents inspires anxiety, especially when you’re a foreigner about to meet the parents of your Chinese boyfriend or girlfriend here in China.
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Guest Post: “Am I in the ‘Wrong’ AMWF Relationship?” How a Woman Who Loved China Fell for a Korean man
“I was worried because he was Korean, while I was passionate about China…. I kept asking myself, ‘Why do I have to fall in love with a Korean man?'”
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Double Happiness: “He just never thought a Western girl could [love] him”
Marghini’s future Chinese boyfriend was in fact into her all along, but he almost didn’t believe she would be into him because she was a Western woman.
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