As a friend goes into quarantine, and the virus closes in on John’s hometown in the countryside, I had to learn how to live with the threat of SARS, everyday.
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As I moved to Shanghai in a microvan, I left behind Hangzhou — and the memories — and moved forward with John’s support.
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A lie may have brought me into Shanghai, but it was the truth that would make me gainfully employed in China.
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Has your China guanxi ever surprised you? A new guanxi of mine set up a job interview in China like nothing I’d ever known.
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In Chinese New Year, wearing new clothes means a new beginning. One night, after losing my job, I commission a new Chinese-style outfit, in the hopes of a new beginning with John’s parents — and, eventually, with my career.
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As I lost my job in the Chinese Internet company, Frank, my ex-Chinese boyfriend, became closer to management. I never thought Frank would understand, and didn’t see how we could stay friends, until one harried night when I left the company.
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What happens when your company in China forgets you? They had forgotten my Ayi, forgotten the contracts of many current workers. And then, they forgot me and my contract.
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In China, sometimes you have to depend on your Chinese friends. I had to, when I sprained my left ankle, and discovered I lived in a disabled unfriendly apartment.
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My Chinese boyfriend, John, faced a seemster of dormitory despair — while I helplessly looked on.
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When you work in China as a foreigner, Chinese companies can surprise you. Mine did one afternoon, when they asked me to spam.
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