Ruzhui: When Chinese Men “Marry Into” Wife’s Family

Ruzhui, where Chinese men “marry into” the wife’s family and have the child carry her name, turns Chinese marriage tradition upside down.

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Ask the Yangxifu: Birthday Gifts for Chinese Men

Chinese men don’t usually celebrate birthdays. But a Western woman may never see her Chinese friend again, and wants to give him something to remember her by.

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Of Love, Money and An “Unsettled Relationship” With a Chinese Man

When I asked my Chinese husband about why he took out a loan to treat me on our first “official date,” the answer — which said a lot about how he viewed love and money — surprised me.

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