Double Happiness: The Accidental Online Dater
Posted in Double Happiness on Nov 4th, 2011
A white American woman tells the story of how a free online dating account she never intended to use led her to her Chinese future husband.
One Western woman with a Chinese husband writes about love, family and relationships in China 洋媳妇看中国
Posted in Double Happiness on Nov 4th, 2011
A white American woman tells the story of how a free online dating account she never intended to use led her to her Chinese future husband.
Posted in China articles on Oct 31st, 2011
Asian Jewish Life published my article “Chosen Women and Chinese men: a Tradition of Love?”
Posted in China articles on Oct 17th, 2011
I usually associated the term “hero” with people who saved lives, or scaled the walls of Gotham City in tights looking for the bad guys — not a single woman from the US who made a serendipitous choice to come to China on her own. But my Chinese husband reserved the term for, among other people, his future wife.
Posted in Double Happiness on Oct 7th, 2011
“A Western woman walks into a bar…” sounds like the start of a joke. But instead of coming back with a punchline, a number of Western women came back with Chinese men who they would eventually marry. Featuring stories from Jo Kelly-Bai, Kelly Sandor-Yang, and White Girl in a Chinese-American World.
Posted in China articles on Oct 3rd, 2011
Just last month, I discovered a new celebrity couple in the community of Chinese men and Western women — Li Yang, the founder of Crazy English, and Kim Lee, his American wife. If only it weren’t because of revelations that Li Yang beat and battered Kim for many years.
Posted in China articles on Sep 26th, 2011
After pondering questions about the One-Child Policy — and how most young Chinese men today had no siblings — I wondered: what would it be like if my Chinese husband were an only child?
Posted in Ask the Yangxifu on Sep 16th, 2011
A Western woman just got diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome, and feels she must reveal this to her Chinese boyfriend. Should she? And if so, how?
Posted in China articles on Sep 12th, 2011
“You’re too old to be a student.” That’s what my Chinese husband’s family and friends told him, because he’s over thirty with no career and no child.
Posted in Ask the Yangxifu on Sep 9th, 2011
Sara Jaaksola offers insight from her own relationship with a Chinese man on what to do when language barriers get in the way of your love.
Posted in China articles on Sep 5th, 2011
After a conversation with the wives of my Chinese husband’s “brothers,” I suddenly felt a little less alone in the world — and realized I could learn so much from married Chinese women.