Advice to help you make friends with, date, or marry Chinese men. Stories about knowing, loving and marrying Chinese men. All from one Western woman with a Chinese husband.
An anonymous Chinese man writes, “We became an office tryst. Nobody knew what was going on between us. I liked the fact that secrecy added fire to our sex.”
What do Chinese men face when they go on blind dates in China? Just ask Bill Tao, who has had 15 blind dates over one and half years with Chinese women.
Shannon Young writes, “He was an opportunity for a real live English romance, my very own Mr. Darcy, except…talkative—and half Chinese.”
“Is he your foreign exchange student?” When you’re a white woman who looks older than her Asian husband
A cashier in America once mistook my Chinese husband for a foreign exchange student I was hosting — suggesting I looked too old to be his wife.
It sounded crazy to me. To think that some Chinese men thought I wouldn’t want to date them just because I’m an American woman!
“He once left me sobbing on a hotel chaise lounge, naked and overlooking the Hong Kong skyline…this was what it was like…to become an artist’s mistress”
UK native Sarah had finished the Half-Marathon in Birmingham when she met the handsome Chinese man who would later propose to her in Dalian, China.
“I’d never dated or been attracted to Chinese men before,” writes Marissa Kluger — not until she met ZJ in Xi’an, a city that stole her heart away.
When you’re a Western woman in China, it’s amazing what some people (especially Chinese men) will say to you in the very first moments you meet.
My article titled “Why Won’t Western Women Date Chinese Men?” (a personal take on a subject close to my heart) was just published in The Huffington Post!