Advice to help you make friends with, date, or marry Chinese men. Stories about knowing, loving and marrying Chinese men. All from one Western woman with a Chinese husband.
*+-“If someone had to tell me twenty years ago that I would be living in Taiwan and married to a Taiwanese man, I would have laughed in their face…”
Ask the Yangxifu: Dealing with “When Will You Get Married?” & Other Awkward Chinese Family Questions
*+-A Western woman living in Asia with her Chinese boyfriend wonders how to deal with awkward questions from his mom, like “When will you get married?”
*+-A Chinese-American man named “Mr. Fortunate” had a shocking affair with a Western woman and feels torn about what he did. (Reader discretion advised.)
*+-Gerald writes: “I replied that I’d had an interest in Chinese culture…. She then asked me if by interest in Chinese culture, I actually meant the girls.”
*+-A Chinese man from Beijing currently studying in America wants to know how to meet Western women there with an interest in China.
*+-An anonymous Chinese man writes, “We became an office tryst. Nobody knew what was going on between us. I liked the fact that secrecy added fire to our sex.”
*+-What do Chinese men face when they go on blind dates in China? Just ask “Ted”, who has had 15 blind dates over one and half years with Chinese women.
*+-Shannon Young writes, “He was an opportunity for a real live English romance, my very own Mr. Darcy, except…talkative—and half Chinese.”
“Is he your foreign exchange student?” When you’re a white woman who looks older than her Asian husband
*+-A cashier in America once mistook my Chinese husband for a foreign exchange student I was hosting — suggesting I looked too old to be his wife.
*+-It sounded crazy to me. To think that some Chinese men thought I wouldn’t want to date them just because I’m an American woman!