Chapter 25: No Chinese, No American, Just Lunch

John, my Chinese boyfriend, wasn’t the only one who could make me feel less foreign in China. My new Chinese friend, Zhang Bin, tells me we should see each other as people, not nationalities.

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Ask the Yangxifu: A Big, Fat, Traditional Chinese Wedding?

What if your Chinese boyfriend’s parents want the big, traditional Chinese wedding — and you don’t? Jocelyn, who has been married to her Chinese husband since 2004, offers advice on how to negotiate a wedding everyone will love.

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