Posted in Ask the Yangxifu on Jul 8th, 2011
Her Chinese-American boyfriend’s parents think their relationship is “unnatural” because she’s older and taller than him (and not because she’s white). How can she get them to like her?
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Posted in China articles on Jul 4th, 2011
My Chinese father-in-law insisted people have the freedom to choose who they marry in China. But then he revealed the truth about his own marriage — it was his mother’s choice, not his.
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Posted in China articles on Jun 27th, 2011
Keeping all of the names for your Chinese relatives together is not such an easy game after all.
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Posted in China articles on Jun 20th, 2011
Ruzhui, where Chinese men “marry into” the wife’s family and have the child carry her name, turns Chinese marriage tradition upside down.
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Posted in Ask the Yangxifu on Jun 3rd, 2011
A British woman, living with her Chinese husband in his isolated village, feels as if she’s missing some emotional support and more.
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Posted in China articles on May 30th, 2011
When I told my Chinese mother-in-law I loved her ring, I never guessed I would have one of my own less than 24 hours later — a ring of compliments.
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Posted in China articles on May 29th, 2011
The China Daily featured me and Speaking of China in an article about marriages between Western women and Chinese men.
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Posted in China articles on May 23rd, 2011
It’s no secret that women in China worry about getting married. But I was surprised to learn that one Chinese woman’s worries came from fear of marriage.
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Posted in Ask the Yangxifu on May 6th, 2011
It’s Mother’s Day this weekend in the US. When I think of mothers, I think of those Chinese mother-in-law dilemmas readers write me about.
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Posted in Ask the Yangxifu on Apr 1st, 2011
If you have a Western girlfriend/fiancee, what do you do when your Chinese family gets in the way of happily ever after? Here are some tips on how to help your family accept her.
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