Ask the Yangxifu: Six Western Women of the Past who Married Chinese Men

You might call them our “yangxifu grandmothers,” the Western women of the past who paved the way for us to love/marry Chinese men. Here’s my list of six prominent women.

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My Chinese Inlaws’ Not-So-Free Marriage

My Chinese father-in-law insisted people have the freedom to choose who they marry in China. But then he revealed the truth about his own marriage — it was his mother’s choice, not his.

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Ask the Yangxifu: Staring in China at Couples of Chinese Men-Western Women

A Chinese man loves the Western woman he just started dating, but not the stares and attention from his fellow Chinese when they’re in public.

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2011 Blogs by Western Women who Love Chinese Men

My 2011 update of all the blogs by Western women who love Chinese men, including authors, mothers, scholars, translators, teachers and truly unique souls.

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Are Jewish Women More Likely to Marry Chinese Men?

As a shiksa with a Chinese husband, I wondered if I was out of the mainstream. Was it really true? Were Jewish women more likely to marry Chinese men?

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