Fenshou: “I Was Once Engaged to a Chinese Man”
Posted in Fenshou on Apr 12th, 2013
A poignant and thoughtfully penned story of how one Western woman’s engagement to a Chinese man from a prominent Beijing family eventually ended.
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Does Peer Pressure Ever Discourage Dating Differently?
Posted in Articles on Mar 25th, 2013
Did you ever experience peer pressure regarding your potential dating choices? And did it ever influence your decision to date (or not to date) someone?
2013 Blogs by Western Women Who Love Chinese Men
Posted in Yangxifu Pride on Mar 8th, 2013
It’s March 8 — International Women’s Day — and time for an update to my list of blogs by Western women who love Chinese men!
The Next Big Thing: On “Red All Over,” My Forthcoming Memoir
Posted in Articles on Mar 4th, 2013
10 questions about “Red All Over,” my memoir that covers Chinese wedding and dating culture, while sharing the story of how China changed my life and love.
Ember Swift Interview Part 1 – How China Changed Her Music
Posted in Yangxifu Pride on Jan 25th, 2013
Meet the artist Ember Swift, a Canadian singer-songwriter, writer and wife to Guo Jian of Long Shen Dao, whose sound was changed forever by China.
On My Negative Dating Experiences With Chinese Men, and Why I Still Kept Smiling About China’s “Dating Scene”
Posted in Articles on Dec 17th, 2012
The winds (of China’s dating scene) didn’t always blow my way, but I still remained smiling, despite all my own negative experiences w/ Chinese men.
Ask the Yangxifu: On Married Men in China Seeking Extramarital Affairs With Western Women
Posted in Ask the Yangxifu on Nov 9th, 2012
A Western woman asks: why does it seem that foreign women are the preferred choice for married men to have an affair with?
Four Lame Reasons Why Western Women Won’t Date Chinese Men
Posted in Articles on Oct 29th, 2012
Here are four of the lamest reasons I’ve ever heard as to why Western women won’t date Chinese men.
Yin-Yang: “A Headstrong Australian Girl…Humbled By China”
Posted in Yin-Yang on Oct 19th, 2012
Christi, a self-described “headstrong Australian girl,” shares how she negotiates differences in her cross-cultural relationship with her Chinese fiancee.
Asian Women “Too Tempting” To Husbands/Boyfriends? Please.
Posted in Articles on Oct 15th, 2012
If you think your husband/boyfriend will stray the moment he’s surrounded by Asian women, well, the problem is NOT the women.
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