The “love, location, career” dilemma for Chinese men/Western women in love

For some Chinese men and Western women in love, a big question looms over their relationship — where should the couple live and work in the world?

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Yin-Yang: Discovering a Whole New World with My Chinese Husband

Before Nicki Chen married her Chinese husband, she thought, “We complement each other.” But their differences also meant they could learn from each other.

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A Story of Sexism, Chinese Men and Who Should Wash the Dishes

I discovered that in China, sometimes one Chinese man’s “woman’s work” is another man’s work he would never let a woman do.

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Double Happiness: A Brazilian-Chinese Love Story That Started With Football

This is a beautiful story of love between a Brazilian woman and a Chinese man from Sichuan Province that begins with football.

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A “Guess Who’s” Perspective on My Marriage, Effort, and What It’s Worth

“Guess Who’s Coming To Dinner” offered me a love-conquers-all perspective on interracial marriage that justified the effort. But an e-mail from a white woman with a long marriage to a Chinese immigrant questioned the worth of such an effort, and wouldn’t recommend it for most.

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