3 Lessons I’ve Learned About Modern Racism from Idaho State University’s Bad Behavior Towards My Husband
It was painful witnessing the horrendous damage that Idaho State University inflicted upon my husband — but it also taught me a lot about modern racism.
Imagine if your past 5 years of hard work were suddenly robbed from you, if your entire career was abruptly ruined. That’s what happened to my husband, Jun.
Two events I’ve heard about recently have something in common — the idea of people who feel like they own the opposite sex of their race or culture.
in China, I found the sexiest men that I’d ever known. It took crossing an entire ocean to realize that my assumptions about dating in China were a lie.
“I’ve given some thought as to why I assumed I’d never find a man to date in China, an assumption that many western women living in Asia seem to make.”
“The nuclear secrets. I know you came here to steal from us…. You’re Chinese, I know you are,” he says quietly, triumphantly, like he’s got me checkmated.
My article titled “Why Won’t Western Women Date Chinese Men?” (a personal take on a subject close to my heart) was just published in The Huffington Post!
Many Chinese men here in China would love to marry a Western woman. But if you’re going to wed us, don’t do it for one of these four really bad reasons!
So-called white “loser laowai” who prefer Chinese women are the skeleton in the cross-cultural dating closet in China, and a thorny topic for me to tackle.
People say, “Why write about your relationship? You’re a white woman dating a Chinese man, what’s the big deal?” I have a new answer: Lorde and James Lowe.