Double Happiness: “He Calls Me ‘Guapa'” — A Chinese-Spanish Love Story

Guapa means good-looking in Spanish. It’s also a lovely word to start off a story about an equally lovely couple — Laura, from Spain, and Tony, from China.

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Ask the Yangxifu: Big Fat Chinese Weddings Revisited

She’s ready to marry her Shanghainese fiancee, but not ready to face the huge 5-star-hotel wedding his family wants. What should she do?

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Are Jewish Women More Likely to Marry Chinese Men?

As a shiksa with a Chinese husband, I wondered if I was out of the mainstream. Was it really true? Were Jewish women more likely to marry Chinese men?

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Stuck Between Taiwan and Jun, Published in Matador Life

International love doesn’t come easy, especially between an American woman and Chinese man. I tell my story in this piece, published in Matador.

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