The Dengji Question: How Marriage in China Gets Confusing

The practice of dengji, registering a marriage in China, confused my relatives about our marriage, especially when we wanted to have a wedding ceremony later.

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Three Inches of Separation: On Loving a Shorter Chinese Man

I never thought I’d fall in love with a shorter Chinese man. But over time, I learned to see beyond the stature of his height, to the stature of his character instead.

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Ask the Yangxifu: Books with Chinese Men and Western Women in Love

A list of books with Chinese men and Western women in love, Inspired by the previous question I answered about movies.

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