Gerald writes: “I replied that I’d had an interest in Chinese culture…. She then asked me if by interest in Chinese culture, I actually meant the girls.”
Alex Tizon’s new memoir “Big Little Man: In Search of My Asian Self” offers a personal view on Asian masculinity in the West — and is a book you must read.
We’ve all heard about yellow fever. What happens when you’re a Western man dating or married to an Asian woman and you’re supposedly living the stereotype?
So-called white “loser laowai” who prefer Chinese women are the skeleton in the cross-cultural dating closet in China, and a thorny topic for me to tackle.