Ask the Yangxifu: Showing Chinese Men You’re “Not Interested”

How do you show Chinese men you’re just not that into them? Jocelyn offers advice on showing, not telling, you’re nothing more than friends to a woman who wants her Chinese coworker to know, once and for all, there’s no love between them.

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Chapter 3: Shortcomings

I love my Chinese man, in all of his stature, now, but I had doubts when I first realized I was taller than him. Could I live with a short Chinese boyfriend?

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Chapter 2: My Chinese Matchmaker, Caroline

Did your Chinese friends ever play matchmaker for you? After a failed relationship with a Chinese man, Caroline was determined to help find me someone better — even if it meant playing matchmaker to me.

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