On Attraction Between White Women/Asian Men And What’s “Normal” - Pub'd on WWAM BAM! | Speaking of China

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  1. Vee
    Vee August 23, 2017 at 9:36 am | | Reply

    Hi Jocelyn,

    I was wondering if you or any of the women in a AMWF relationship had encountered 撒娇? Do their partners like if they behave in this way or do most not engage in it? I have been in a AMWF relationship for 4 years and only recently my partner said that he kind of missed this behaviour, but knows not to expect it from a western female. I’m just curious if western women participate in 撒娇 or not? I get embarrassed when I try and think I look fairly odd when I try to behave cute haha 🙂

  2. David
    David August 27, 2017 at 9:15 am | | Reply

    Totally normal not to be attracted? Sounds like she does not regard Asian women as human and the relationship more as a bestiality. Even Donald Trump sounds moderate on race issues after Charlottesville than this woman and we are surprised Trump even got elected?

  3. ManilaMemories
    ManilaMemories September 3, 2017 at 10:40 pm | | Reply

    Seriously, I wonder if people actually “think” and “reflect” before they respond with seemingly comical expressions of indignation….With that in mind, I have to agree that yes, it is indeed, “perfectly normal” for a White woman not to be sexually attracted to Asian guys, including myself. So why is that, “controversial? Is it because there is “so much truth” to the statement? After all, the term “Asian” encompasses a wide variety of people whose physical appearance do not necessarily fit within Western standards of sexual attractiveness….Now, Asian women are more likely to view Asian guys differently because they share similar social/cultural/ethnic traits–and there is a great deal of mutual exposure to each other starting with the basic family unit, whereas the average White woman grows up with far fewer social encounters with Asian males….As such, it would be patently absurd–in my view, to suggest then, that it would be “perfectly normal” for White women to be “sexually attracted” to Asian males, simply because there is no real basis for that assumption, except one’s highly questionable, subjective opinion.

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