Ask the Yangxifu: On Being Vegan in a Chinese Family
Posted in Ask the Yangxifu on Oct 28th, 2011
A reader asks me how my husband and Chinese family reacted to my vegan diet. Was it always happily vegan every after for us?
One Western woman with a Chinese husband writes about love, family and relationships in China 洋媳妇看中国
Posted in Ask the Yangxifu on Oct 28th, 2011
A reader asks me how my husband and Chinese family reacted to my vegan diet. Was it always happily vegan every after for us?
Posted in China articles on Jun 27th, 2011
Keeping all of the names for your Chinese relatives together is not such an easy game after all.
Posted in China articles on Jun 20th, 2011
Ruzhui, where Chinese men “marry into” the wife’s family and have the child carry her name, turns Chinese marriage tradition upside down.
Posted in Ask the Yangxifu on Jun 3rd, 2011
A British woman, living with her Chinese husband in his isolated village, feels as if she’s missing some emotional support and more.
Posted in China articles on May 30th, 2011
When I told my Chinese mother-in-law I loved her ring, I never guessed I would have one of my own less than 24 hours later — a ring of compliments.
Posted in China articles on May 23rd, 2011
It’s no secret that women in China worry about getting married. But I was surprised to learn that one Chinese woman’s worries came from fear of marriage.
Posted in China articles on Mar 28th, 2011
My Chinese husband has sneezing fits in the US, I have them in his family home in China. And our only explanation is shuitu bufu.
Posted in China articles on Jan 17th, 2011
When my Chinese husband was born, the neighbors wanted to swap him for their baby daughter. I couldn’t help but wonder what this said about women in China.
Posted in Travel China with the Yangxifu on Nov 10th, 2010
Nestled in the sun-kissed hills of central Hunan, there’s an ordinary yellow mud-brick peasant house with a not-so-ordinary neighbor — a permanent People’s Liberation Army guard station. That humble — and now fortified — abode was laojia (老家, home) to one of China’s most commanding (and controversial) figures of the 20th century: Mao Zedong. In [...]
Posted in Ask the Yangxifu on Sep 17th, 2010
Are foreigners always the one to concede to a greater cultural tradition? Jocelyn conceded a lot to her Chinese family for her wedding — but, on the other hand, her family has perhaps given her far more back in return.