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t’s the last Monday of 2013, nearly New Year’s Eve, and time for me to announce the top 5 Monday posts for 2013!
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Here they are, starting with number five:
#5: We’re Going Home — To China
This announcement of our homecoming to China attracted your attention — and quite a few pageviews!
#4: “Why Us?”: More on Discrimination and Marriage to a Chinese Man
John and I faced some challenges this year, and in an attempt to find meaning in our circumstances, I asked myself a certain question.
#3: Love or Fetish? On “Yellow Fever” and Creepy/Sketchy Attractions
An online discussion about the idea of “yellow fever” ultimately inspired this post — and a lot of comments from readers like you!
#2: On Dating Chinese Men — Or Why You Shouldn’t Judge After Only One Date
When I discovered a highly ranked post for the search term “dating Chinese men” that was written based on the author’s one and only one date with a fellow, I decided it was time to provide a more balanced view on the Internet and wrote this post with the search term in the title. I also encouraged other bloggers to do the same and they did. I’m now pleased to report that anyone who searches for “dating Chinese men” will find a plethora of positive posts on the subject — and might just change a few minds in the future.
#1: Why Aren’t We Talking More About The Rarity of AMWF?
Also inspired by the online discussion regarding “yellow fever”, one of the commentators posed this provocative question — and led me to blog about it.


for me the best one was about you going back home 🙂
have a great new year! 🙂