Ask the Yangxifu
Answers to your questions about dating, marriage and family in China/Chinese culture or the West.
Ask the Yangxifu: Dealing with “When Will You Get Married?” & Other Awkward Chinese Family Questions
-+*A Western woman living in Asia with her Chinese boyfriend wonders how to deal with awkward questions from his mom, like “When will you get married?”
-+*A Chinese man from Beijing currently studying in America wants to know how to meet Western women there with an interest in China.
-+*如果你真的想娶一位在中国的西方女人，就请——拜托——一定不要打以下4个糟糕透顶的主意。（翻译自《4 Really Bad Reasons for Marrying Western Women in China》）
-+*Many Chinese men here in China would love to marry a Western woman. But if you’re going to wed us, don’t do it for one of these four really bad reasons!
-+*一个欧洲理科研究生爱上了一个中国小伙子，但并不想为此放弃自己的事业并和他移居中国。 他们能否克服地域障碍而最终走到一起？(Translation of 《Ask the Yangxifu: Love and Location Dilemma With a Chinese Man》)
-+*Are we more vulnerable to the throes of a one-sided relationship when we’re dating someone in a foreign country?
Chinese Singaporean man seeks independent Western woman with “life in her” – and reminds us of diversity
-+*Don’t always assume he’s too conservative or traditional for you to date just because he’s Chinese and you’re an independently minded Western woman.
-+*A reader wants to know how being married to a Chinese man and to the Chinese “extended family” changed has changed my “feminist” (independent) views.
-+*Seven incredibly weird questions from search terms that will never become real Ask the Yangxifu columns, but might just make you go “Hmmmm” or laugh!